Me…Down Under

Saturday, June 20, 2015. 11:17a


Saturday morning. Sprawled on the couch. TV on in the background, reading the IMG_4062NYTimes the old-fashioned way (that is, not on my iPad). My apartment is a bit of a mess as I start-and-stop cleaning up, vacillating between putting stuff back in the closet and putting it in bags and boxes. Because I might be moving. 


I am excitedly anticipating the Sunday night phone call I have scheduled with HR and the CEO of my possible/probable new job in Sydney, AUSTRALIA!!!  Unknown copy


It’s pretty much a done deal, though we haven’t put anything on paper and signed it yet. Even though I’ve been talking about it for a month, it doesn’t become really real until it’s in writing. And I can’t wait. 


I’m on the verge of a wildly exciting new chapter in my life. “Wildly” exciting because I’ve never even been to Australia, and yet I am solidly sure that moving to this place I’ve never visited will, nevertheless, be good.  I know that some people think it’s a little crazy…but I don’t think it’s crazy at all. For me, it’s an adventure. It’s only for two years and I think I can handle anything for two years. 


I’ve always wanted to live and work abroad, and yet, I’ve passed on the few opportunities I’ve had because the timing just didn’t feel right. I don’t even remember now why I passed on the offer to move to Toronto 25 or so years ago. Probably something to do with some guy I was dating…who I don’t even remember now. Or maybe it was for a more substantial reason. I dunno. Another time, I didn’t want to move so far away from my dad who was almost 90.  And last year when the prospect of Australia was raised, I didn’t want to leave my dog. Dear Danny was 15 years old and in uneven health. I couldn’t take him with me because Australia requires a six-month quarantine of any dog entering the country. The best dog everI didn’t think Danny (or I) would easily survive that. But Danny died in May and “Operation Danny” –as my soon-to-be boss called it– began in earnest. Operation Danny because I was now free to go. 


It feels really right. I’m 60 ( just about). I don’t know how many more fantastic opportunities like this will just fall into my lap. My new boss is my old boss. I worked with her two years ago when I joined TNS.  I like her a lot and we work well together. And I climbed a mountain  with the Australia office’s CEO last year. Neither of us had any idea when we met on that mountain that we might be spending lots more time together.  I’m a city girl and Sydney is a thriving metropolis that looks just like the kind of place I can fall in love with. They speak English there. I don’t have to learn a new language…though I know the metric system will give me an ongoing headache. But I’m ready.  I love an adventure. 


Hurry up Sunday night. Let’s get this thing started. 


Monday, June 22, 2015 9:48p

It’s ON!  Australia, here I come. In our Sunday night phone call we worked out all (well most) of the details.  It’s actually going to happen. We’re thinking late September/early October…which feels like it’s right around the corner.

Now, there’s sooo much to do…purging stuff, storing other stuff, banking and tax IMG_3175
annoyances, and most worrisome: renting out my NYC co-op and my Long Island vacation home. (Anybody interested?)


This is really big.  Australia is so far. (The NYC –> Sydney flight is 22 hours). Being that far away from my family is going to feel weird. But life is to be lived and I love an adventure.  I’m happy, excited…and a little overwhelmed.  Carpe diem.  YOLO. Stay tuned!


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6 Responses to Me…Down Under

  1. April says:

    WOW! 🙂 Congratulations! So happy for you that you will get to experience this tremendous adventure.

  2. Pam says:

    Oh My God!!!! I envy you so much. When I was in 4th grade, my family was going to move to Australia. We didn’t. Ever since then, I’ve had this burning desire to visit, travel, enjoy…oh, you are so lucky!!!! I’ve traveled a lot, but my path hasn’t led Down Under yet. I WILL get there some day, though. Please keep us posted.

  3. Carolyn B says:

    Wow, looking forward to tidbits of this adventure. I’m starting to turn chicken as I inch toward 50; it has more to do with my health than my inner self. Kudos to you for taking such a big step in life. Have a happy wonderful adventure.

  4. Michael Ann says:

    Congratulations! You are such an inspiring person. No way you are almost 60! You are young and vibrant and lead such an exciting life. So happy for you!

  5. Phyllis says:

    Yeah! I’m about excited as you, dear sister. I’ve already started packing (in my head). Always wanted to visit Australia but regretted the long ride, but now I have a real reason to take the ride because there will be more than the lovely country waiting for me when I arrive. Yeah again!

  6. Pam Hochstedler says:

    HOW EXCITING!!! I hope that you find more time to update Spinsterlicious while you are over there. I can’t wait to hear all about Australia and the men…

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